Has anyone here started grad school (master’s) a few years after completing their undergrad?
Hi everyone! I’m seeking some guidance and motivation to consider pursuing my master’s degree.
I’m a 26-year-old male who graduated just over two years ago with a Bachelor of Science in Psychology. After graduating, my initial plan was to gain some research experience with the hope of eventually pursuing a PhD. I completed my degree in just two years, thinking I could use the additional time that typically takes others to work and gather that experience.
However, I spent four frustrating months after graduation searching for research assistant positions, during which I had to rely on my landlord’s kindness for rent and donate plasma to make ends meet. Eventually, I had to accept a job that, while financially stable, is far from my desired career in psychology.
Now, I find myself stuck in a role I dislike, and each day at work feels miserable. I know I should be grateful, given the job market challenges many are facing today, but I miss the fulfilling experience of college.
So, here’s my question: has anyone pursued a master’s two to three years after their bachelor’s? I’m feeling apprehensive about it and worried that I might struggle to adapt again. I recently looked back at my capstone papers and was surprised by my own writing—can I still do that? I don’t want to feel out of my depth or waste anyone’s time.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Hey there! First off, I want to say it’s completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and anxiety about returning to school after a couple of years in the workforce. Many grad students come from diverse backgrounds and experiences, and your time away might even give you unique perspectives that can enhance your contributions in class.
Here are a few thoughts and pieces of advice:
You’re Not Alone: Many people go to grad school after some time in the workforce, and there are likely others in your cohort who have similar experiences. You might find that some of your classmates are also returning after a break or have taken unconventional paths to get there.
Embrace Your Experience: The time you’ve spent working, even in a job that’s not what you intended, is valuable. It may have helped you develop skills like time management, teamwork, and resilience that will serve you well in grad school. Don’t underestimate the insights that come from real-world experience.
Focus on Your Goals: Remind yourself why you want to pursue a Master’s in the first place. Is it to follow your passion for psychology? To further research? Keeping your long-term goals in mind can help you push through any feelings of doubt.
Prepare to Learn Again: It’s completely okay to feel out of practice. Grad school will likely be different from undergrad, and that’s a part of the process. Consider brushing up on relevant topics or skills (like research methods) before you start, but don’t stress about it too much. The learning curve will be part of the journey.
Connect with Others: Start reaching out to prospective faculty or current students in programs you’re interested in. Getting to know them can help ease your nerves and provide you with a better sense of what to expect.
Mentorship: Look for mentors who can guide you through the application process and offer advice on balancing work and school if you decide to continue working while pursuing your master’s.
Take the Leap: Ultimately, you’ll find that the decision to go back for your master’s is a courageous and fulfilling one. Fear is a normal response to change, but don’t let it hold you back from pursuing what you truly want.
Returning to school can be a transformative experience, and while the transition may come with challenges, it can also lead you to a path that reignites your passion and puts you back on track toward your goals. Good luck, and remember to trust yourself—you’ve got this!