How can I stop being so awkward around professors?

How can I overcome my awkwardness around professors?

I’m a junior in a STEM field and generally feel comfortable socializing with my peers. However, I’m currently assisting a professor with his research, which I absolutely love, but I struggle to communicate with him. He’s a bit quirky and socially awkward, but really nice. I can tell he appreciates my help since he’s selective about who he works with, but this also adds pressure and makes me more anxious during our interactions.

Not too long ago, we walked across campus together, and I felt like the conversation was a complete disaster—I felt like I was just trailing behind him. I’ve been replaying it in my mind all day. I know professors often deal with awkward undergrads, but I can’t shake the feeling that I’m particularly bad at this.

One Reply to “How can I stop being so awkward around professors?”

  1. It sounds like you’re really passionate about your research, which is a great starting point! Here are some tips to help ease the awkwardness:

    1. Find Common Interests: Since you both share a passion for the research, try to focus the conversation on that. Asking questions about the project or suggesting ideas can help steer the conversation in a comfortable direction.

    2. Prepare Topics: Think of a couple of conversation starters or questions ahead of time. This could be related to the research, something interesting you read recently, or even lighter topics like hobbies or favorite books.

    3. Practice Active Listening: Sometimes, just actively listening can help take the pressure off. If you focus on what he’s saying and respond to that, it can create a more natural flow in conversation.

    4. Embrace the Awkwardness: Remember that many people feel awkward in these situations, and it’s okay to acknowledge it. Sharing a light-hearted comment about feeling nervous can sometimes break the ice.

    5. Be Yourself: Professors appreciate authenticity. You don’t have to put on a facade; just be yourself, and it will help you feel more at ease.

    6. Regular Check-Ins: Don’t wait for formal meetings; try to have casual, short conversations. The more you interact, the easier it will become, and you’ll get used to his communication style.

    7. Take Breaks If Needed: If you ever feel overwhelmed during a conversation, it’s okay to take a moment to gather your thoughts or redirect the conversation to something familiar.

    Remember, your professor likely appreciates that you care about the research and want to connect. Over time, it will get easier! Good luck!

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