Seeking Friendship as a Non-Traditional Student
Hi everyone! I recently made the transition from community college to a four-year university, and I’m feeling a bit lonely. To give you some context, I commute to school and live with my parents, and while my 22-year-old brother also attends the same college, I still feel a sense of isolation.
I’m reaching out to see if anyone has advice on how I can make friends as a non-traditional student. Additionally, I’m curious about the possibility of meeting someone special while I’m here. I understand there may be age differences, and I’m open to that—any tips would be greatly appreciated!
Hey there! It’s completely normal to feel a bit out of place, especially after transferring and being a non-traditional student. Here are some tips to help you make friends and potentially meet someone special as well:
Get Involved on Campus: Join clubs or organizations that match your interests. Many universities have a variety of clubs, including ones focused on specific hobbies, academic fields, or social causes. This is a great way to meet people with similar interests.
Attend Events: Look for social events, workshops, and mixers happening on campus. Colleges often host events to help students connect. This can be a relaxed environment to meet new people.
Use Social Media and Apps: Consider joining campus-related groups on social media platforms. Sometimes, there are also apps or websites specifically for students looking to make connections or find study partners.
Take Class-Related Opportunities: Participate in group projects or study groups. Working closely with classmates can help you build friendships naturally.
Reach Out: Don’t hesitate to initiate conversations with classmates. A simple “Hey, how’s it going with the class?” can be a good icebreaker. You might be surprised at how many people are open to making new friends!
Be Open About Your Background: While it’s important to be respectful of age differences, many young students appreciate diversity in experiences. Being open about your non-traditional path may even be a conversation starter.
Balance Social Life and Studies: While focusing on studies is important, carve out some time for social activities. Finding that balance can help reduce feelings of loneliness.
Consider Volunteering: This can be a fulfilling way to meet others while giving back to the community. It can also provide common ground for developing friendships.
As for dating, be yourself and take your time. Building friendships can often lead to deeper connections. Just be honest and clear about your intentions, and you’ll find people who appreciate you for who you are.
Good luck! You’ve got this!