How frequently do you reach out to friends outside of school? I have a solid group of friends at school, and we share a close bond. However, we tend to be more introverted, which means we don’t have much to say outside of class. I’ve noticed that our interactions are quite limited when we’re not at school. We usually only text for important matters like school projects or to arrange hangouts, but we never share updates about our daily lives. Is this a common experience? We also rarely call each other outside of school. This trend became really obvious over the summer; I hardly talked to them at all. Yet, at school, we feel tight-knit. I’m worried about losing these friendships once I head off to college this fall, especially since we won’t see each other as often. Do you have any advice? Am I just overthinking this, or is this situation normal?
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It’s totally normal to feel concerned about your friendships, especially as you transition to a new phase in life like college. Many people experience something similar, where school friendships thrive within that context but don’t necessarily translate to outside interactions.
It sounds like you and your friends have a strong bond when you’re together, which is a great foundation! However, if you’re feeling worried about losing that connection, it might be worth trying to initiate more casual conversations through text or even setting up a regular time for calls or video chats. You could share small updates about your day, interests, or even memes—just to keep that connection alive in a low-pressure way.
Also, remember that many friendships evolve and change; some may become stronger, and others may fade a bit. It’s part of life. College is a great opportunity to meet new people, but that doesn’t mean you have to lose touch with your current friends. If you’re both interested, finding ways to stay connected can help bridge that gap. Don’t be afraid to express how you’re feeling to them; they might be feeling the same way too!