Is there a double standard at play here? My friends and I are openly gay at school, and today, one of my friends was called down for using the f-slur, which we only say occasionally—maybe once a week. Meanwhile, the n-word is tossed around frequently, and it doesn’t seem to garner any attention. I attend a school with a large minority population, and I’m feeling really confused and frustrated about this situation.
Can you believe this? I just went to use the restroom and saw three guys in there, one of whom was eating pizza. Once he finished, instead of tossing the box in the trash— which was right there—he actually tried to flush it down the toilet! Seriously? Even his friends were calling him out for […]
Anki vs. Quizlet for Long-Term Test Preparation: Which is Better? Hey everyone! I’m currently an 11th grader trying to find the best way to study for my exams. My goal is to keep things manageable by spending about 20-25 minutes each day on new topics I learn in school, which will help me avoid exam-related […]
What does it mean when a guy calls me “bbg”? I’m a girl, and this guy, who has a girlfriend (though he says they aren’t very close), is a schoolmate of mine. We don’t chat much in person, but we do talk online occasionally. During one of our conversations, he called me “pookie” and “bbg.” […]
It sounds like you’re experiencing a frustrating and confusing situation. It’s understandable to feel upset when it seems like there’s a double standard in how language and behavior are enforced. The key issue here might be the context in which these words are used and how different communities view them.
While it’s important to hold everyone to the same standards, the history and impact of certain slurs can vary widely. Many schools have policies in place to address hate speech and protect students, but the enforcement of these policies can sometimes feel inconsistent. It might be worth discussing the situation with a teacher or an administrator to express your concerns and advocate for a more equitable approach to language and behavior policies. Open dialogue can help raise awareness and promote understanding among peers and staff.