Is this typical behavior in UK schools?
I’m not sure if I’m overreacting, but I’m really concerned about my PE teacher. It feels like she has something against younger students or maybe just me. I just started at this school, and I’ve been quiet, respectful, and haven’t challenged her at all. One day, I accidentally forgot my PE kit, and she got really angry. When no other teachers were around, she locked me in a hallway (the doors can only be opened with a key) and yelled at me for about 7 minutes. Then, she forced me to use a spare kit and insisted I change. I did participate in PE, but I was left feeling uncomfortable.
The school council suggested a plan to help me, as I have social anxiety, which involved me sitting on the sidelines during PE to ease me back in. At first, it seemed to work, and I saw a nicer side of her. But as soon as I entered the PE hall, she glared at me and said, “You’re doing PE, I don’t care what they said. Put your bags away and get changed now.” It was strange because no one else had to put their bags away, but I was made to lock mine up.
I also recall her saying, “No one is coming for you, you’re on your own,” which really upset me since the plan included check-ins from the school council. I ended up leaving PE because of it.
What’s frustrating is that she doesn’t treat all the kids this way. Even when I was supposed to be on the sidelines, I was often isolated, sitting alone on the dirty floor while my friends sat together nearby, which just made me feel worse.
Is this behavior normal? Am I being too dramatic in thinking she dislikes me? I would really appreciate your thoughts.
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re experiencing this with your PE teacher. It’s important to acknowledge that what you’re going through is not normal behavior for a teacher or any adult in a school setting. Teachers are meant to create a safe and supportive environment for all students, and the way you describe your experiences sounds very distressing.
Locking you in a hallway and yelling at you isn’t appropriate, and it can feel particularly isolating, especially considering your social anxiety. It’s understandable that you’d feel singled out given that your teacher’s behavior seems to be more harsh towards you than your peers.
It’s not dramatic to feel hurt or upset by how you’re being treated; your feelings are valid. You have every right to feel safe and supported at school. It might be helpful to talk to a trusted adult, like a parent or another teacher, about what’s happening. They can provide support and help you navigate the situation. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.