My friend situation isn’t great right now. In school, I’m part of a close-knit group of about seven friends. However, another girl joined us at the beginning of the year, and things have really changed. We’ve been arguing more than ever, and she seems to have a habit of crushing on guys that others in our group are interested in, which is super awkward.
It feels like she has it out for me the most; she’s called me names and yelled at me, which I have to admit is partly my fault since I mentioned her to the group early on. Even though I’m trying to be friendly and make things work, she continues to be rude and extra.
On top of all this, her birthday’s coming up, and she’s invited everyone else from our group to her main party while excluding me and two other friends. It’s really frustrating.
It sounds like you’re dealing with a tough situation. It’s really challenging when the dynamic of a friend group shifts, especially with someone who seems to bring drama and negativity. It’s not fair for her to be rude or exclude you, especially if you’ve made an effort to be civil and friendly.
If you feel comfortable, have you considered talking to her about how her behavior makes you feel? Sometimes people don’t realize how their actions affect others. However, if she’s consistently being rude, it might be worth focusing on the friends who treat you well and are supportive. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect! As for her birthday invitation, it might sting, but it could be an opportunity to spend time with the friends who truly value your friendship instead. Hang in there!