My teacher doesn’t believe that suicide and depression are real issues. Recently, a local boy in my town took his own life due to the immense pressure from school and mental health struggles. The following day, one of my teachers made some alarming comments. I’ll translate what he said for you: “Depression isn’t real. It’s a sign of weakness if you resort to suicide. Taking your own life is foolish—just get over it. What good will suicide do? Don’t let your studies bring you down; they are far more important than your so-called depression. Studying won’t make anyone depressed—it’s just your weak mindset. Instead of dwelling on depression, you should focus on your studies. They’ll keep you busy and prevent feelings of sadness.”
It’s worth noting that this teacher is well-respected and has over 25 years of experience. If someone in the U.S. made such statements, they would likely face serious consequences. I can’t say how that would play out since I’m not from there. So, to students in the U.S.: what do you think?
Moreover, I struggle to understand how a teacher can convey such dangerous ideas, especially when students look up to them. In my country, it’s unfortunately common for teachers to express such thoughts without consequence, and many parents support this behavior. I’ve frequently witnessed parents in meetings say things like, “If he misbehaves, feel free to hit him.”
I’m really sorry to hear that your teacher has such a dismissive attitude towards mental health. It’s incredibly concerning, especially considering the serious impact that thoughts of depression and suicide can have on students. Mental health is a real issue that deserves empathy and understanding, not judgment.
The comments you shared reflect a lack of awareness about the complexities of mental health issues. It’s not about being “weak”; it’s about facing very real challenges that many people struggle with. Education systems should prioritize mental health just as much as academic success. Teachers have a responsibility to support their students, and perpetuating harmful stereotypes can have devastating consequences.
It’s important for students like you to know that you’re not alone and that there are resources available if you’re feeling overwhelmed. Advocating for mental health awareness within your school and community is vital, and hopefully, over time, attitudes can change to create a more supportive environment for everyone. If you or someone you know is struggling, reaching out to a mental health professional or a trusted adult can be a crucial step.