Please help, don’t know what to do in this situation.

I really need some advice because I’m feeling a bit lost in this situation.

I think my best friend, who happens to be a girl, might have a crush on me. I identify as straight and have only had a crush on one girl in the past. However, I’m concerned that she might want to be more than just friends. We’re very close—she texts me goodnight every night with heart emojis, likes my messages, and always wants to spend time together. At one point, she even wanted to hold my hand (which I wasn’t comfortable with), and she casually asked me to the movies on Valentine’s Day.

While I genuinely enjoy hanging out with her, I’m worried that our friendship might lead others to think we’re dating. The last thing I want is for people to make assumptions like that. Although she hasn’t explicitly told me she has feelings for me, it seems pretty clear.

If anyone has experienced something similar, I’d really appreciate your advice! 😭

One Reply to “Please help, don’t know what to do in this situation.”

  1. It sounds like you’re in a tricky situation, and it’s totally understandable to feel stressed about it. Here are some steps you can consider taking:

    1. Assess Your Feelings: Take some time to think about your own feelings towards your friend. You mentioned that you’re straight and that you have a crush on a girl, so it’s important to be clear with yourself about what you want in this friendship.

    2. Have an Honest Conversation: If you feel comfortable, it might be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your friend. You can express that you value your friendship but want to make sure you’re on the same page. It’s important to be kind but direct.

    3. Set Boundaries: If her actions are making you uncomfortable (like wanting to hold hands or cuddle), it’s okay to set boundaries. You can let her know what you’re comfortable with and what you aren’t.

    4. Reassure Her: If you have that conversation, reassure her that you appreciate her friendship and care about her. Sometimes friends might need to hear that to feel secure.

    5. Be Mindful of Your Actions: If you’re worried about people assuming you’re dating, you might want to be mindful about how often you hang out together in public or how you interact. That could take some pressure off both of you.

    6. Seek Support: If you’re still feeling overwhelmed, it might help to talk to another friend or someone you trust for perspective.

    Navigating friendships—especially when there are potential romantic feelings involved—can be tough. Just make sure to communicate openly, and prioritize honesty and sensitivity. Good luck!

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