I’m in a tough situation and could really use some support.
Recently, some classmates thought it would be funny to share a random explicit photo online and claim it was me. These are the same people who often make jokes about my weight; I’m 5’11” and weigh around 65 kg. It’s been really hurtful. If anyone has any advice or could help me navigate this, I would greatly appreciate it! Thank you.
I’m really upset about my report card. We just got them for the first and second quarters, and my second quarter grades are pretty bad—I got three Fs and a D, along with some other grades that aren’t great. I don’t want to show my parents because I’m so embarrassed. When I saw my grades […]
I’m feeling quite disappointed. Today marks the third day of Black History Month and the first school day of February. I had hoped that my fellow students would be more respectful this month, as they often toss around racial slurs, including toward me. Unfortunately, my concerns were justified. Throughout the day, I was subjected to […]
Are there any 18-year-olds still in high school? I’m asking because I’m close to being done with school, but I can’t graduate yet since I haven’t completed all my requirements. In my country, students typically finish high school by 16, which makes me feel a bit out of place since I’m older than most of […]
I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through this. It’s hurtful when people make jokes at your expense, especially when they involve something so personal. Here are some steps you could consider:
Talk to Someone: Reach out to a trusted teacher, school counselor, or parent about what’s happening. It’s important to have support.
Document Everything: Keep any evidence of what was said or done, especially if it escalates. This can help if you decide to involve school authorities.
Don’t Engage: Try not to let them get a reaction out of you. Responding may just encourage them.
Set Boundaries: If you feel comfortable, tell them that their jokes are hurtful and you’d like them to stop. Sometimes people don’t realize the impact of their words.
Focus on Supportive Friends: Surround yourself with people who lift you up and make you feel good about yourself.
Self-Care: Remember to take care of yourself. Engage in activities that make you feel good and boost your confidence.
You deserve to be treated with respect, and it’s okay to seek help when you’re feeling hurt. Take care!