regret

Feeling Regret

Hi everyone, I’m a senior in high school, and I’m set to graduate this June. However, I’m feeling overwhelmed by regret. I didn’t take my high school years seriously, and it’s starting to make me anxious about my future. Right now, I’m considering joining the military as a stable option, but my true passion lies in engineering.

I don’t want to face difficulties in life, and I realize now that I didn’t heed my dad’s warnings, which I took for granted at the time. My GPA isn’t where I want it to be, and I’m genuinely embarrassed about it. I think a big part of my struggle with school came from my mental health at the time, which has been challenging and still isn’t great.

If anyone has advice or insights to share, I would really appreciate it. Thank you!

One Reply to “regret”

  1. Hey there,

    First off, it’s really brave of you to share your feelings and concerns. Many seniors experience similar regrets as they approach graduation, so you’re definitely not alone in this. It’s great that you’re thinking about your future and considering the military — that can provide both stability and a path to further your education later on.

    Here are a few pieces of advice that might help you navigate this tough time:

    1. Focus on the present: While it’s easy to dwell on past decisions, try to concentrate on what you can do now. You can’t change the past, but you can take steps today that contribute to your future.

    2. Explore military options: The military can offer various programs for education, including scholarships and training in fields like engineering. Research what branches might offer opportunities aligned with your interests.

    3. Prioritize your mental health: It’s important to address your mental health concerns. Seek out support from school counselors, family, or friends. Mental well-being can greatly impact your academic performance and overall outlook on life.

    4. Look into post-secondary education: If you have a passion for engineering, consider community colleges or trade schools that might have programs aligning with your interests. Many people have successful careers by taking non-traditional paths to education, especially after the military.

    5. Set small goals: Break down your aspirations into smaller, achievable steps. This can help you feel more in control and build confidence as you progress.

    6. Talk to mentors: If possible, connect with teachers, counselors, or professionals in the engineering field. They can provide guidance and might have suggestions for getting started.

    Remember, it’s never too late to pursue your dreams, and your journey might just take a different path than you initially envisioned. Take it one step at a time, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support along the way. You’ve got this!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *


Related Post

My school account is blocked

My school account has been blocked, and I’m really worried. Yesterday, I logged into my school account on my phone to submit a project but forgot to switch back to my personal account. Later, I watched anime on a site that I know isn’t exactly legal, and this morning I realized I hadn’t logged out […]

Nah who also does this?

Who Else Can Relate to This? Have you ever found yourself in a situation that makes you think, “Am I the only one?” It’s fascinating how many common experiences we share, yet we often feel isolated in our thoughts and actions. Whether it’s a quirky habit, a funny mishap, or a relatable dilemma, odds are, […]

Will excused absences cause me to be held back, or fail classes

Will Excused Absences Result in Failing Classes or Being Held Back? I’m currently in 11th grade in Virginia, and I’ve had some unfortunate health issues this school year. I’ve accumulated around 18 excused absences due to the flu (twice) and pneumonia. I have doctor’s notes for each absence, but I’ve recently received emails stating that […]