Having two crushes at the same time?
I’m a pansexual sophomore girl, and I find myself liking a pansexual, quirky senior girl who’s really into theatre, as well as a straight white junior guy. The senior girl feels a bit out of reach since she’s a senior, and oddly, she’s not really my type. I can’t help but feel like it’s a little unfair, like I’m not fully dedicated to either of them. Just sharing my thoughts—who knows what will happen!
I’ve created a website designed to assist high school students in finding research opportunities. It’s pretty amazing to think that my weekend project is actually making a difference! My sister was having difficulty locating labs, so I decided to build this tool to help her explore NIH-funded projects and improve her email outreach. She shared […]
How do you all manage school life? I’m currently a freshman and I’m really struggling with it. The workload feels overwhelming, and I find myself questioning the purpose of it all. Is it just about getting into college and landing a decent job? When does it all come to a close? What’s the ultimate goal […]
Why don’t people wear their letter jackets anymore? At my school, the jackets are provided at no cost, so the only expense is for the patches. I know this isn’t really about money—everyone gets a jacket, even if they don’t buy patches—but I’m really curious: why is it that hardly anyone wears them? I got […]
It’s totally normal to have crushes on multiple people at the same time, so don’t be too hard on yourself. It sounds like you’re exploring your feelings and figuring out what you want, and that’s all part of the process! Everyone has different types and preferences, and sometimes attraction can surprise us. Just because the girl isn’t your type doesn’t mean your feelings are invalid. It’s also okay to acknowledge that you’re interested in both of them in different ways. Just take your time, enjoy the feelings, and see where they lead you!