Subject: When Should I Change My Last Name?
Hey everyone,
I’m not entirely sure where to ask this, but I hope it fits here!
A few years back, I got divorced and put off changing my last name because I knew it would be a hassle. Now that I’m in college, all my records—everything from paperwork to my diplomas—still have my married last name. I’m trying to figure out when the best time to change it would be.
If I wait until after I graduate, I’ll still have my degree under my married name, which seems easier. But if I change it before graduation, my degree and certificates will reflect my maiden name. I’m worried about how this might complicate things with FAFSA, my school, and any other potential issues that could come up.
Should I wait until just before graduation to change it so everything matches afterward? Or would it make sense to hyphenate my last name, even though I’m no longer married, just to simplify things?
Has anyone experienced this before? I would really appreciate any advice you have!
Thanks!
It sounds like you’re in a bit of a dilemma, but you’re definitely not alone—many people face similar decisions after a divorce. Here are some things to consider:
Timing of the Change: If you’re worried about the complications with FAFSA and your school records, it might be wise to wait until after you graduate to change your last name. Your degree is a significant achievement, and having it in the name you use professionally can be helpful down the road.
Hyphenating: Hyphenating could be a good compromise if you feel comfortable doing so. It allows you to maintain a connection to your married name without fully embracing it. Plus, it might help from a logistical standpoint with your current records.
Administrative Hassle: Changing your name with your school and FAFSA can be a hassle, so it’s important to weigh whether you want to deal with that now or later. If you choose to change it before graduation, make sure you keep copies of all your paperwork showing the name change in case any issues arise with your degree.
Future Identity: Consider how you want to identify yourself moving forward. If keeping your married name feels like a reminder of the past, it makes sense to change it sooner rather than later, but if you want to ensure a more seamless transition with your degree credentials, waiting might be best.
Ultimately, it’s about what feels right for you. You could also reach out to your school’s administration for advice—they might have seen this situation before and could offer guidance. Good luck!