Part-Time Work as a Freshman: A Post on Behalf of My Nephew
I’m sharing this on behalf of my nephew, who has recently been admitted as a freshman at a state school out west. He’s also received a job offer in IT that pays $4,000 a month for part-time work. I think it’s a fantastic opportunity for him to earn money while gaining valuable experience and avoiding hefty student loans, especially since he’ll be attending a state institution.
However, he’s feeling some pressure from his high school friends, many of whom are going to prestigious private universities for full-time study. As a result, he’s worried about being seen as the “poor kid” or being sidelined. I’ve reminded him that this mindset can be limiting and that it’s important for him to follow his own path.
I’d love to hear your thoughts. If you attended a state school and worked part-time, did you feel treated differently? Would you view someone in that situation differently? Any advice for him would be appreciated!
Your nephew’s situation sounds like a fantastic opportunity! Balancing work and education can provide valuable experience, and earning that kind of income while studying is a significant advantage that will likely set him up well for the future. It’s completely normal for him to feel some pressure, especially when peers are heading to more traditional paths, but it’s essential for him to remember that everyone’s journey is different.
In college, many students come from a variety of backgrounds and experiences. His part-time job can actually be a great conversation starter and a way to connect with a diverse group of people. Instead of feeling sidelined, he might find that his experiences give him unique insights that others appreciate.
As for the concern about being perceived as the “poor kid,” it’s important for him to own his choices and recognize the value in them. Many students admire those who take initiative and practicality into their education and finances. Genuine confidence in his situation can help significantly counteract any feelings of inferiority. He should try to focus on his own goals and the benefits of his current path.
Encourage him to seek out clubs or organizations that align with his interests, potentially around IT or other fields he’s passionate about. This can help him meet peers with similar aspirations, making it easier to build a supportive network.
Ultimately, everyone has their own definitions of success, and working towards his goals, while gaining real-world experience, is a tremendous way to lay a solid foundation for his future. It’s great that he has a supportive uncle like you!