Reflecting on Summer Course Decisions: Lessons Learned and Moving Forward
Entering university with enthusiasm and a solid academic record—achieving a 3.7 GPA in your first year—is a commendable achievement. However, navigating the student experience can sometimes lead to unexpected challenges, especially when it comes to balancing coursework, personal well-being, and family expectations.
This summer, I chose to enroll in two accelerated courses, aiming to stay productive during the break. These classes, condensed into just two months, move at twice the normal pace, requiring intense focus and dedication within a shortened timeframe. Despite my initial motivation, I found myself overwhelmed. By late April, I was already feeling exhausted from the academic year, yet I persisted due to external pressures—comparable to my brother’s internship success and my parents’ expectations, which made me hesitant to step back.
Throughout May, I procrastinated and completed only the minimum requirements, craving a break but feeling compelled to continue. As the workload intensified, I struggled to keep up, and yesterday, I found myself emotionally overwhelmed, realizing how much I underestimated the course demands. Now, I fear that this decision might negatively impact my GPA and that withdrawing could invite family disappointment, making recovery seem uncertain.
This experience has taught me important lessons about recognizing my limits, prioritizing mental health, and the importance of genuine productivity over external validation. While setbacks can feel discouraging, they also present valuable opportunities for growth and self-awareness. Moving forward, I plan to reassess my priorities, seek balance, and ensure that future decisions align more closely with my well-being and goals.
For fellow students navigating similar situations, remember: it’s okay to acknowledge when you’re overwhelmed, and seeking support or making adjustments isn’t a sign of failure. Your health and long-term success matter more than temporary pressures.