Embracing Your Unique Path: A Message for Late Bloomers and Life Explorers
Life’s journey isn’t a race, and there’s no universal timetable for success or self-discovery. If you’ve started university later than expected, taken a break, or feel like you’re falling behind, remember—you are not alone, and you are not failing. You simply move at your own pace.
Allow me to share a personal story that might resonate with many of you. When I began my university journey at 18, I was uncertain about my direction. I tried different majors, took just enough credits to stay afloat, and explored a wide range of subjects. During this time, I also took opportunities to travel, meet new people, and enjoy life—supported by savings from my high school years. I believe these experiences helped shape my understanding of who I was and what I truly valued.
Life can be unpredictable and challenging. During my first year, I faced a heartbreaking loss—my cousin, who was like a sister to me, passed away. That tragedy prompted me to pause and focus inward. Many people criticized my choices, calling me immature or lazy, and my parents didn’t quite understand either. Yet, I knew I had to grieve, reflect, and heal. I immersed myself in reading, traveling, strengthening my faith, and finding peace with her passing. More importantly, I learned to accept myself throughout the process.
At 21, I finally committed to studying mathematics and data science, supplementing my academic pursuits with bootcamps and certifications in data engineering. Just as I was gaining momentum, I encountered severe setbacks—two car accidents, one my fault, and one out of my control—leading to serious injuries and failing some courses. It was a tough blow, but I refused to give up.
Today, at 22, as I prepare to enter my third year of university, I’ve secured internships and received an offer for a data analyst position at a leading regional hospital—an alternative path if I decide not to pursue data engineering. I continue investing in my growth through additional certifications, and I anticipate graduating by 24. My journey isn’t about a perfect record or fitting into someone else’s timeline. It’s about clarity, resilience, passion, and living a life I am proud of.
Remember: there is no “right” age to graduate or to achieve your goals. Growth, healing, exploration, and even change of direction are all valid parts of