Understanding Social Norms and Personal Comfort: A Reflection on Greeting Etiquette
In today’s interconnected world, social interactions often shape our daily experiences, yet they can also create misunderstandings, especially for those who are naturally more reserved. I want to share some personal insights and invite discussion on the topic of greetings and social expectations.
For those of us who are not inherently outgoing, engaging in daily social routines such as greeting others can feel unfamiliar or even overwhelming. I recently transferred to a new school during my junior year, where I quickly noticed a different social dynamic—everyone seems to greet each other regardless of familiarity. Initially, I tried to participate in this norm by saying hi to classmates I didn’t know well. However, over time, I found myself simply nodding with a smile or silently acknowledging acquaintances I recognized.
Now, in my senior year, I tend to keep to myself more often. Between academic pressures and sleep deprivation, I sometimes feel disconnected from the social hustle around me. Despite this, I’ve noticed that some might interpret my silence or minimal interaction negatively—not saying hi in certain moments might be perceived as rudeness or lack of friendliness. But it’s important to remember: everyone has their own emotional state and social comfort levels. Not every day is one where engaging in conversation is feasible or desirable.
I understand that social norms often emphasize smiling and greeting others as signs of politeness and friendliness. Yet, for many, a simple smile might be enough to communicate respect and acknowledgment, especially on days when words feel difficult or unnecessary.
To anyone who might feel misunderstood or judged for their social responses—know that silence or a smile is not a reflection of your personality or feelings. It’s okay to honor your own mood and boundaries. We should strive to foster understanding and patience in social settings, recognizing that everyone navigates social interactions differently.
Please note, English is not my first language, so I appreciate your understanding if my expression isn’t perfect. Thank you for taking the time to read my reflections.