Navigating Parental Expectations and Academic Goals: My Journey from High School to College
Embarking on my higher education journey has been filled with challenges and lessons. After graduating high school with a 3.3 GPA and a 1300 SAT score, I faced several hurdles, especially considering my background—I spent five years living in the United States, starting high school here with limited English skills. One of my significant oversights was applying to only two colleges during my senior year: Saint Peter’s University, which I didn’t give much thought to at the time, and my dream school, Stevens Institute of Technology.
I believed I had a strong application for Stevens, backed by a compelling essay and strong recommendation letters. Unfortunately, I was not accepted. By the time I received the rejection, most college application deadlines had already passed, leaving me with Saint Peter’s as my only viable option for the immediate future. I had always considered enrolling in a community college first, intending to transfer later to a more competitive institution like Stevens. However, my parents were hesitant about this plan, urging me to start directly at Saint Peter’s.
Now, I am beginning my college journey at Saint Peter’s with a dedicated plan: to work diligently during my time here and transfer to Stevens later on. The decision to start at a community college versus a four-year university raised questions for me, particularly about transfer opportunities. Many wonder whether transferring from one university to another is more challenging than transferring from a community college.
While transferring between universities can present hurdles, especially concerning credit transfers and program requirements, it often depends on the specific institutions involved and your academic performance. Starting at a community college can be a strategic move, allowing you to build a solid academic record, save money, and increase your chances of transferring into your dream school later.
Ultimately, pursuing higher education is a personal journey, and navigating parental expectations adds another layer of complexity. Staying focused on your goals, proving your commitment through hard work, and exploring all available pathways can open doors to your desired future. Remember, many students take varied routes to achieve their dreams, and persistence is key.