Seeking Advice
Hey everyone, I’m a 17-year-old junior in high school, and I’m facing a lot of challenges right now. The pressure of college is weighing heavily on me, though I feel I’m handling it better than some of my peers. Unfortunately, my grades have slipped, and I unfortunately failed chemistry last trimester. I know I can improve that grade in the final, but at the moment, everything feels pointless.
I have a meeting scheduled with my school counselor, which is a first for me, since I used to be a straight-A student. Lately, my mental health has taken a toll; I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and depression at a young age. My psychiatrist also put me on the wrong medication for about four months, which really impacted me. Lately, it feels like I’m just trying to get through each day, and I’m struggling to find my footing.
With spring break just around the corner, I feel incredibly burnt out and unsure about how to lift myself out of this situation. I truly am trying, but it doesn’t seem to be enough. My parents haven’t been very supportive, and sometimes it feels like my future is slipping away. I’m really worried about getting into the only school I want to attend, George Washington University for political science. While I maintain good grades in subjects I’m passionate about, my performance in other classes has suffered.
I’m just feeling lost right now and would appreciate any advice or support. Thank you!
Hey there,
First off, I’m really sorry to hear that you’re going through such a tough time. It’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed, especially with everything you’re juggling right now. Please know that you’re not alone in this struggle, and it’s okay to ask for help.
It sounds like your mental health is a big factor in how you’re feeling about school, and that’s something that deserves attention and care. Have you considered talking to a school counselor? They can offer support, help you manage your workload, and advocate for you, especially with the meeting in LS. It’s important to have someone on your side who understands what you’re going through.
As for your grades, remember that it’s okay to focus on what you can control. You mentioned that you can bring up your chemistry grade—put some time and energy into that during spring break if you can. Break your studying into smaller, manageable parts instead of trying to tackle everything at once.
It might also be helpful to take a step back and think about what truly matters to you beyond just the grades. You have strengths in the classes you’re passionate about, and that counts for a lot.
Regarding your college aspirations, it’s great that you have a goal in mind! Remember, there are many paths to get there, and it’s okay if the journey looks different than you expected. Focus on doing your best in the subjects you care about and seek help for the classes that are a struggle.
Lastly, please make sure you’re taking care of yourself during this time. Find small ways to recharge, whether that’s spending time outside, connecting with friends, or engaging in activities that bring you joy. Your well-being is the most important thing.
You’re stronger than you think, and it’s okay to take things day by day. Lean on the people who support you, even if it’s just a couple of friends or a teacher. Don’t hesitate to reach out for professional help if you feel like you need it. You’ve got this, and it’s okay to ask for help along the way.