Life Lessons from a Senior Year: Things I Wish I Knew Sooner
Navigating the final years of high school can be overwhelming, and looking back, I realize there are several insights I wish I had embraced earlier. Sharing these lessons might help current students or young adults better understand and enjoy this pivotal time.
1. Perspective on Others’ Judgments
One of the most freeing realizations I’ve had is that most people aren’t scrutinizing your every move. Whether it’s your choice of attire, a grade you’re unhappy with, or an awkward comment you made, remember that everyone is often preoccupied with their own concerns. People tend to move past their own worries quickly, so try not to overthink or obsess over minor imperfections. Building confidence comes from understanding that you’re not under constant judgment; most individuals are too focused on themselves to judge you harshly.
2. The Reality of Academic Success
Grades do matter, but they don’t define your entire future. Aim to do your best, but don’t let a single test or assignment consume you or impact your mental health. Colleges look at more than just GPA—they consider your effort, extracurricular activities, and how you treat others. Embrace the idea that perfection isn’t necessary; what truly counts is growth, resilience, and character.
3. Embrace New Opportunities
Don’t be afraid to try new activities—even if you think you’re not good at them. Join clubs, audition for roles, volunteer, or participate actively in class discussions. High school offers a unique environment where trying new things is the norm and encouraged. I missed out on numerous opportunities because I was too scared of appearing foolish. Platforms like snow.day can connect you with extracurriculars, but fear of judgment can hold you back. Take the leap—those experiences can be invaluable.
4. Financial Responsibility is Key
One of the most practical lessons I wish I had prioritized earlier: earning and saving money. Whether it’s part-time jobs or freelance gigs found via indeed.com, earning your own income is empowering. If your parents support your basic needs, still make it a goal to save some money. Small savings add up over time and can alleviate financial stress in the future. I regret not being more disciplined with saving, as it has impacted my ability to pursue scholarships and other opportunities now.
5. The Nature of Friendships
Friendships will evolve