What should I do?
In my previous post, I mentioned considering dropping out, but I’ve been leaning more towards homeschooling. Does anyone have advice on how to approach this with my parents and school? I’m in 9th grade, and I really dislike attending school. It’s not about the learning itself; it’s just the whole environment. I struggle to muster the motivation to go because I feel out of place with the people, find the teachers frustrating, and think the school is overly strict for being a public institution. After almost a year, I still haven’t made any friends, and at this point, I’m past caring about that; it just frustrates me that it comes so easily to others.
I’ve been contemplating homeschooling for a while now. I believe it would suit me better—I often feel disorganized because the teachers don’t communicate things clearly, and it’s difficult to know what is expected of us. On top of that, I’m eager to get a job. I’ve wanted one for a long time, and now that I’m finally able to work, I really want to pursue that opportunity. I don’t think I could balance both a traditional school and a part-time job, which is why I believe some form of online homeschooling would be the best option for me. What do you all think? I’ve been struggling with attending school for quite some time now.
It’s understandable that you’re feeling frustrated with your current school situation, and it’s great that you’re considering options like homeschooling. Here are some steps you can take to move forward:
Research Homeschooling: Start by looking into different homeschooling options available in your state. There are various programs, some of which are fully online, and others that involve more hands-on learning. Each option might have different requirements and structures.
Prepare Your Thoughts: Before approaching your parents and school, organize your thoughts. Clearly explain why you want to switch to homeschooling, how it could benefit your education, and why you believe it would help you be more motivated and focused.
Talk to Your Parents: Share your feelings with your parents. Choose a calm moment to discuss it with them. Explain your struggles at school and how homeschooling might provide you with the flexibility you need, including the ability to work part-time.
Contact the School: If your parents are open to the idea, you can reach out to your school counselor or principal to discuss your options. They may guide you on the process of transitioning to homeschooling and what steps you need to take.
Create a Plan: If your parents agree and you decide to proceed with homeschooling, work together to create a structured plan that includes your learning goals, daily schedule, and part-time job plans. This can help ensure you’re organized and make the most of your new learning environment.
Stay Positive and Open: Remember that transitioning to homeschooling can take time, and it may be a big adjustment for everyone involved. Keeping a positive attitude and staying open to feedback will help you through the process.
It’s okay to seek an education that fits better with your needs! Don’t hesitate to share how you feel with those who can help you make this change. Good luck!