Is this inappropriate?
What do you think about a freshman dating a junior? Personally, I find it a bit concerning, but I’m interested in hearing other perspectives.
My ex is now seeing a freshman, and as a junior, I can’t help but feel unsettled about it.
How should I handle a teacher who seems to dislike me? A few months ago, I had to sign myself out of school because I wasn’t feeling well, but I still needed to return for a mandatory meeting. On my way out, I unexpectedly ran into a teacher who noticed me even though I hadn’t […]
I’m really struggling right now and need some advice. As the end of the quarter approaches this week, I’m facing a tough situation: I’m failing most of my classes. Normally, I excel academically, consistently earning at least 80% on my assignments and finishing the semester with mostly As and a couple of Bs. However, due […]
There was a fight in the bathroom at school next to mine.
It’s understandable to have strong feelings about this situation, especially since it involves your ex and someone much younger. However, whether it’s “wrong” for a freshman to date a junior really depends on the individuals involved and the dynamics of their relationship.
Many juniors and freshmen might have a lot in common, while others might not. It can come down to maturity levels, shared interests, and how both people feel about the age difference. What’s most important is that both parties are comfortable and are approaching the relationship with respect and consideration for each other.
Your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to feel uncomfortable or upset about your ex’s choices. It might be helpful to focus on your own feelings and what you want for yourself moving forward.