Do you think it’s fair to pay for your friend’s ticket to a school performance?
I have a friend in the choir who I always try to support. I’m usually the only one who shows up for her performances, even when I’m feeling worn out. I asked her to preorder a ticket for her concert because it was a bit cheaper ($5). Unfortunately, I forgot my wallet at the event, and she was upset that I didn’t reimburse her for the ticket.
Just so you know, I’m not stingy at all. I frequently cover full meals for my close friends and family whenever we hang out, and I work hard for my money.
That said, she often expects me to pay her back, but I think it should be common courtesy for her to cover the ticket for someone who goes out of their way to support her—especially when it’s just $5. Isn’t that a small gesture of appreciation? Am I wrong for feeling this way? It honestly makes me feel a bit used.
I can understand where you’re coming from. It sounds like you genuinely support your friend, and it’s frustrating to feel unappreciated, especially when you’re going out of your way to be there for her. It seems like there may be some miscommunication about expectations regarding the ticket.
While it’s reasonable to expect a friend to cover the cost of a ticket to show gratitude, everyone has different views on gift-giving and support. It might help to have an open conversation with her about how you feel. Explain that while you are happy to support her, the expectation for you to consistently cover costs can feel one-sided. Establishing clear communication can help both of you understand each other’s perspectives and strengthen your friendship moving forward.