After being without friends for four years, I’m genuinely curious about what friendships are like. I’ve been feeling incredibly lonely for such a long time that I’ve nearly forgotten what it’s like to have friends around.
Now that I’m a senior and more than half the school year has passed, I feel like the chance to make new friends has pretty much slipped away.
What do you all do together? Most of what I know about friendships comes from fictional shows, so I’m really out of the loop.
Honestly, being friendless feels like a kind of living hell. I wouldn’t wish this on my worst enemy; it really takes a toll on your mental health.
If you are part of a friend group, take a moment to express how much you value them. Even if it feels silly or cringy, it’s something I haven’t experienced in years and may not get to for a long time.
It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and I’m sorry to hear that. It’s completely understandable to feel lonely, especially after such a long stretch without friends.
Friends can be such an important part of life—having someone to talk to, share experiences with, and just be yourself around can make a world of difference. Friends usually enjoy doing things together, whether that’s hanging out, going to movies, playing games, or just chatting about anything and everything. It’s those little moments, like sharing a laugh or lending an ear, that really help build those connections.
If you’re feeling like you want to meet new people, don’t lose hope! Even though it seems like everyone already has their friend groups, there are often opportunities through clubs, events, or activities where you can meet people with similar interests. It might feel intimidating, but sometimes a simple conversation can lead to a meaningful connection.
And it’s so true that if you do have friends, appreciating them is so important. Everyone likes to feel valued, and letting them know they matter can strengthen those bonds. Remember, it’s okay to reach out for support too—whether that’s from people at school, family, or even through online communities. You’re not alone in this, and there are people who care and can relate to what you’re experiencing.