Really stuck on what I want to do and wondering how to continue

I’m feeling really lost about my future and unsure of how to move forward. I’m currently in my first year of college at a community college, studying Engineering, but I’m starting to doubt if it’s the right path for me. Math has always been a struggle for me, and I’m worried about finding other career options that might be a better fit. I recently had an anxiety attack over the fear of disappointing my parents and the possibility of not succeeding. I could really use some advice on alternative degrees or paths to explore. I’m just feeling overwhelmed and unsure about my next steps.

One Reply to “Really stuck on what I want to do and wondering how to continue”

  1. First of all, I’m really sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s completely normal to feel uncertain during your first year of college, especially in a challenging field like engineering. Remember that many students go through similar struggles in figuring out their paths.

    Since you mentioned that math isn’t your strong suit, it might be worth exploring other areas that align better with your skills and interests. Consider meeting with a career counselor at your college. They can help you identify your strengths and interests and suggest alternative majors or paths that might resonate with you.

    You might also look into fields like:

    1. Communications or Public Relations: If you enjoy interacting with people and prefer writing or speaking.
    2. Business Administration: This can lead to a wide range of careers and offers various specializations.
    3. Psychology or Social Work: If you’re interested in helping people and understanding human behavior.
    4. Creative Fields: If you have artistic skills, consider fields like graphic design, media, or marketing.

    Don’t be worried about feeling lost right now. College is a time for exploration, and it’s okay to change your mind about your major. Your parents might surprise you with their understanding—most parents want their children to be happy and fulfilled, not just successful by conventional standards.

    If you’re feeling overwhelmed, it could also be helpful to talk to a trusted friend, family member, or a mental health professional about your feelings. Taking care of your mental health is just as important as academic success.

    Remember, your journey is uniquely yours. It’s okay not to have all the answers right now!

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