Frustrations with Teacher’s Treatment
Why am I being treated unfairly by my teacher? What did I do to deserve this?
I asked my teacher if I could go to the washroom, and she replied, “No. You’re not going anywhere,” in a really abrupt tone. However, just three minutes later, she let another student who frequently skips class go to the washroom. The frustrating part is that with the 15-minute rule, by the time that student returned, there were only 10 minutes left in class.
I’m an average B student in her class, while others have A’s or D’s, yet I feel like I’m receiving the strictest treatment.
There was an instance when I got one question wrong on a worksheet, and she bluntly told me to erase it. Meanwhile, a student who is barely passing got only a glance at his worksheet before she moved on to others. Another student, who is at a similar level as me, also missed one question, but instead of harshly telling them to erase it, she just walked away without a word.
Is it normal for one student to feel singled out like this? I understand that she might be having a tough day, but it feels like I’m the only one facing this kind of treatment.
Edit: I realize I may have high expectations. But I’m just like everyone else—neither smarter nor less capable.
It sounds really frustrating to feel like you’re being treated unfairly by your teacher. It can definitely feel disheartening when you see others receiving different treatment, especially when it seems undeserved. Teacher-student relationships can sometimes be complicated, and sometimes a teacher may unintentionally favor certain students or have a different approach based on their own experiences or stress levels.
It’s important to remember that everyone can have off days, including teachers, but that doesn’t excuse unfair treatment. You might consider having a private conversation with your teacher about how you’re feeling. Sometimes, clear communication can help address misunderstandings and may give you insight into her behavior.
Also, it could help to talk to a trusted adult, like a counselor or another teacher, about your experience. They might provide additional support or advice on how to navigate the situation. Remember, your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be treated with respect just like everyone else in the class!