I could use some advice. There’s a girl I’m interested in, but we haven’t really talked much, and I’m unsure how to start a conversation without sounding awkward. I added her on Snapchat, but I’m at a loss for what to say. Any suggestions?
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It’s great that you want to start a conversation! Here are a few tips to help you out:
Start Simple: You can send her a casual message like “Hey! How’s your day going?” or “Hi! I saw your Snap about [something she posted], it looked fun!”
Use Common Interests: If you have any mutual friends or shared classes, you can start by mentioning something about that. For example, “Hey, I heard you’re in [class or activity]—what do you think of it?”
Ask Open-Ended Questions: This will encourage her to respond and share more. For example, “What have you been up to lately?” or “Have you seen any good shows or movies recently?”
Be Genuine: Just be yourself! If you come across as sincere and interested, she’ll likely appreciate it.
Be Patient: If she doesn’t respond right away, don’t take it personally. Sometimes people are busy or might not check their messages often.
Good luck! Starting the conversation can be the hardest part, but once you do, it will get easier.