Are high school relationships really worth it? I’m 16 and finding myself feeling a bit lost when it comes to dating since I’m not in a relationship. I’ve noticed that many girls at my school seem to prioritize looks over personality, and I’m neither the athletic type nor do I have the chiseled jawline that seems to attract attention. So, is it even worth pursuing a relationship, or should I focus on enjoying my time with friends instead?
This is the same girl who, at 3 years old, was recognized as gifted through a public school exam. The same girl who, at 9, would hit herself with rulers for getting questions wrong—all because she felt the weight of her future. The same girl who, at 10, sacrificed sleep, staying up until 4 a.m. […]
Reposting from r/askteachers: A question for those involved in sports regarding accommodations for individuals with disabilities.
Substitute Teacher Experience Back in my sophomore year, I had a substitute teacher who was in his 30s or 40s, and he was genuinely one of the best subs we ever had because he was so approachable. One day, I approached him with what I thought was a silly question. Before I even finished asking, […]
It’s completely normal to feel a bit frustrated about high school relationships, especially when you feel like looks are prioritized. But it’s important to remember that relationships, whether romantic or platonic, can be a valuable part of your personal growth.
High school is often more about exploring who you are than finding “the one.” Building strong friendships can provide a support system and help you develop your social skills. Plus, those connections can lead to more meaningful relationships down the line when you’re older.
That said, don’t lose hope if you’re interested in dating. Focus on being confident in yourself and engaging in activities that you enjoy; this will help you meet people who appreciate you for who you are. Remember, personality often shines brighter than looks in the long run.
In the meantime, enjoy hanging out with friends and make the most of these moments. The experiences and memories you create during this time can be just as rewarding as any romantic relationship!