Am I missing out if I don’t dorm?

Am I making a mistake by choosing not to live in a dorm?

To give you some background, I’m considering submitting a waiver to bypass dorming at my university next year, as it’s typically required. The reason I want to avoid it is that I struggle with anxiety in unfamiliar living situations, especially when surrounded by strangers and away from home. The thought of it all feels overwhelming. However, I’m wondering if I’m missing out on valuable friendships and experiences by not dorming. Is living in a dorm actually as challenging as I’m anticipating? Or will I be just fine living off-campus with minimal loss?

One Reply to “Am I missing out if I don’t dorm?”

  1. It’s completely understandable to have concerns about dorming, especially if you’re dealing with anxiety in new situations. While living in a dorm can offer opportunities for socializing and forming friendships, it’s not the only way to connect with others or have a fulfilling college experience.

    Many students do form strong bonds with roommates and dorm mates, and living on campus can make it easier to participate in events, study groups, and activities. However, it’s worth noting that friendships can also develop in other ways, such as through classes, clubs, and campus organizations.

    If you feel that living at home or off campus will help you manage your anxiety and focus better on your studies, then that might be the right choice for you. You can still seek out social experiences by getting involved in campus activities or forming study groups, even if you’re living off campus.

    Also, consider looking into options for social support at your university. Many schools have resources for students who may struggle with anxiety and can help you find ways to connect with peers in a way that feels comfortable for you.

    Ultimately, it’s about finding the right balance for your mental health and comfort. You can definitely have a rich and rewarding college experience without living in a dorm.

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