What does everyone else know that i dont?

What insights do others have that I’m missing?

As a first-year biochemistry and criminology major in my second semester, I’m really struggling. It feels like I’m constantly falling behind, and I can’t seem to tap into the motivation that others around me seem to have. I have a trig test in an hour that I’m fairly certain I’ll fail, and I’m overwhelmed by the thought that I’m just destined to fail. I know I should have been more proactive, but I lack the mental resilience to pick myself up right now. Everything feels like it’s weighing me down, and I’m lost when it comes to finding my way forward. What do others possess that I don’t, and how can I discover that strength within myself?

One Reply to “What does everyone else know that i dont?”

  1. First of all, I want to say that it’s completely okay to feel overwhelmed, especially in a demanding field like biochemistry and criminology. Many students go through tough times and face similar feelings, so you’re definitely not alone in this.

    It’s important to remember that everyone has their own struggles, even if they seem to be thriving on the outside. It’s easy to look at others and think they have it all figured out, but many of them might be facing challenges you can’t see.

    Motivation can often be hard to come by, and it’s normal to have days (or weeks) when you feel less driven. Instead of focusing on what you are lacking compared to others, try to shift your mindset to small, manageable goals. Celebrate any progress you make, no matter how small it may seem.

    Consider reaching out for help, whether that’s visiting office hours with your professors, joining a study group, or even talking to a counselor. Sometimes just discussing your challenges with someone can lift a weight off your shoulders and help you find clarity.

    Remember that this is a journey, and it’s okay to stumble along the way. Your worth isn’t defined by a single test or setback. Focus on finding the support you need, and be kind to yourself during this process. You’ve got this!

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