I’m doing the bare minimum for my degree (non traditional student)

I’m just getting by in my degree program (as a non-traditional student). At 28, I’ve been taking classes part-time off and on since I was 21, with many breaks along the way. After holding several office jobs, I realized I needed a college degree to advance in my career. I’m fortunate to be able to attend school full-time for the next year and a half as I complete my undergraduate degree in a humanities discipline.

However, I’m not really engaged with the coursework. I hardly do any readings, and while my major is somewhat interesting, it’s not something I’m passionate about. I have been able to find answers for my at-home quizzes and manage decent grades without much effort. I sometimes feel guilty when I see clubs and professional organizations setting up tables on campus, thinking I should be more involved. I also feel like I’m not truly learning anything—I’ve struggled to pay attention in my major classes, especially since I transferred in this semester after earning an associate’s degree in a different field.

Some people might say I’m wasting my money, but my main goal is just to earn my degree. Right now, I feel too disinterested and down to engage fully. Mostly, I just want to graduate and get back to work.

Does anyone else relate to this feeling?

One Reply to “I’m doing the bare minimum for my degree (non traditional student)”

  1. It sounds like you’re going through a tough time, and I appreciate your honesty about your situation. It’s completely normal to feel disconnected and unmotivated, especially when you’re not passionate about the subject matter. Many students, particularly non-traditional ones, face similar challenges—whether it’s juggling life responsibilities, feeling overwhelmed, or questioning the value of their education.

    It might help to reflect on what you hope to gain from your degree beyond just the diploma. Even if your major isn’t what you dreamed of, are there skills or knowledge areas that could be valuable for the career you want to pursue? Engaging with your classes—even at a minimal level—might help you discover unexpected interests or connections that could enhance your future job prospects.

    As for the clubs and professional groups you mentioned, it could be worthwhile to explore just a few that catch your eye. You might be surprised by how they could enrich your experience or provide networking opportunities, even if it’s just a casual involvement.

    Ultimately, prioritizing your mental health is crucial. It’s okay to recognize that you’re in a phase where simply getting through is what you need to focus on. If depression and disinterest are major challenges, consider talking to a counselor or an academic advisor who can support you in this journey. Remember, you’re not alone in feeling this way, and it’s okay to seek help. Hang in there; you’ve already come so far!

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