What does it mean when I indicate that I’m comfortable with Gender Inclusive Housing on my application? Does it suggest I might be suite-mates with someone of the opposite gender, or does it actually mean we could share a room?
If I select yes, am I required to share with someone of a different gender, or can I still choose my roommate?
I initially answered yes, assuming it referred to having mixed genders on the same floor rather than sharing a room together.
Could someone clarify this concept or share their experiences with it? I’m not entirely sure I’m comfortable with it, and I might want to submit a change form.
Edit: I contacted the housing office, and they clarified that it simply means you’re open to living with individuals of any gender in your dorm or suite. This could include a mix of men, women, transgender individuals, nonbinary people, etc. However, my university also has a separate community specifically for those who identify as LGBTQIA+ or are allies. Thank you for your help!
It sounds like you got some clarification from the housing office, which is great! To summarize what you’ve learned:
Being comfortable with Gender Inclusive Housing means that you’re open to living in a space where roommates may be of different genders, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you will be sharing a room with someone of the opposite gender. Typically, it allows for more flexibility in roommate assignments, where you could live with any gender within a suite or dorm.
In many cases, universities that offer Gender Inclusive Housing still allow you to select your preferred roommate(s), but you’ll want to check the specifics with your housing office to ensure that’s the case at your institution. It’s understandable to feel uncertain about it, especially if you thought it just meant mixed-gender floors.
If at any point you feel uncomfortable with your housing arrangement after understanding what it entails, submitting a change form is a perfectly reasonable decision. Your comfort in your living situation is important, so don’t hesitate to advocate for yourself. Good luck, and I hope you find a housing arrangement that feels right for you!