Im starting to think this is not for me, but what then?

I’m starting to feel like this path may not be the right one for me, but what should I do instead?

After going through a challenging mental health period that lasted over a year, I’m back at community college. I previously attended this school before my mental health struggles began, which really took a toll on my academic performance. My GPA hit rock bottom at 1.5 at the start of this semester, and seeing that number hit me hard. I was genuinely excited to return to my studies, but that GPA has left me feeling defeated.

I’m trying to find ways to succeed in my classes and motivate myself, but it’s tough. I’ve never been a straight-A student, but I still wanted to do better. Now, whenever I think about my academic future, I get overwhelmed and anxious.

Do you have any suggestions for me? I’ve considered options like trade school; welding has intrigued me since my high school workshop class, but I don’t know much about it. I’m also thinking about joining the fire department or the Coast Guard, although I know those come with their own challenges. I just want to make sure I choose a path that won’t negatively impact my well-being or my family.

One Reply to “Im starting to think this is not for me, but what then?”

  1. It sounds like you’re going through a really challenging time, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about your future. First, I want to acknowledge the courage it takes to return to school after experiencing mental health issues. That alone is a significant accomplishment.

    It’s okay to feel anxious about your GPA; it’s only one part of your academic journey and doesn’t define your worth or potential. Many people have faced setbacks and found ways to turn things around. You might consider seeking support services at your community college, such as counseling, academic advising, or tutoring. These resources can help you build a plan for improving your GPA and managing your stress.

    In terms of exploring other paths, trade schools can offer practical and fulfilling career options. Welding, for instance, is a skilled trade that often comes with good job opportunities and can be very rewarding. Researching programs or talking to someone in the field can give you a better idea of what to expect and whether it aligns with your interests.

    If you’re interested in emergency services like the fire department or coast guard, consider reaching out to local departments for information about their requirements and job functions. Volunteering or participating in ride-alongs can give you insight into those careers and help you decide if they are right for you.

    Ultimately, it’s about finding what resonates with you and aligns with your goals and well-being. Take it one step at a time, and remember that it’s okay to change directions. You’re not alone in this, and there are people and resources out there to support you. Keep moving forward, and trust that clarity will come with time and exploration.

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