Looking to ask out a girl
I’ve had a crush on this junior girl for the past year, and I walk by her on my way to class every day. She’s absolutely beautiful, and I honestly feel like she’s out of my league. Still, I want to take a chance before prom and graduation, as I’d love to go with someone special. The problem is that I only see her during passing periods, and there’s hardly any time to approach her and ask for her number. How can I handle this situation? Any advice?
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It’s great that you want to ask her out! Here are some tips on how to approach the situation:
Find a Moment: Try to catch her before or after class when she doesn’t seem rushed. If you can’t find a good moment during passing periods, consider reaching out via social media or asking a mutual friend if they can help introduce you.
Start Small: If you’re nervous about asking for her number right away, start with casual conversations. A simple compliment or asking about her day can help break the ice and make her more comfortable with you.
Be Direct but Polite: When you feel the moment is right, be straightforward. You might say something like, “Hey, I’ve really enjoyed our brief chats in passing, and I’d love to get to know you better. Would you be okay sharing your number?”
Keep it Casual: You can suggest hanging out or grabbing coffee instead of framing it as a formal date right away. This can take the pressure off both of you.
Be Prepared for Any Response: Remember that she might not feel the same way, and that’s okay. Be respectful of her response, whatever it may be.
Good luck!