Facing a Tough Decision
I’ve missed over 40 days of school this year, mainly due to struggling with mental health issues at the beginning of the year. I just wasn’t in a good place.
While my grades have improved, I’m encountering challenges in my CTE class. The course relies heavily on group work and presentations, but my teammates often don’t show up, resulting in penalties for everyone involved. I’ve reached out to my counselor for help, but she consistently says there’s nothing that can be done about it. I’m feeling lost—school feels overwhelming, and my parents aren’t being supportive either. They’re threatening my graduation because of my absences, and they refuse to discuss it with anyone.
I’m even considering getting my GED, but I know my parents would be upset by that choice.
What should I do?
It sounds like you’re really going through a tough time, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed. First, it’s important to prioritize your mental health, so you’re on the right track by recognizing that things haven’t been easy.
Since you’re struggling with your CTE class due to group dynamics, one option might be to document your experiences and any attempts you’ve made to address the issues with your group. If your counselor isn’t being helpful, consider reaching out to another trusted teacher or school administrator who might advocate for you or help facilitate a solution.
Don’t hesitate to communicate openly with your parents about how the situation is affecting you. They might not fully grasp what you’re experiencing, and sharing your feelings could help them understand your viewpoint better.
Regarding the GED, it’s a valid route if you feel that’s what you need for your future. However, it might be worth having a conversation with someone who can help you explore all your options before making that decision. There may be alternative pathways or support systems available to you at school.
Remember, you’re not alone in this, and reaching out for support, whether from friends, teachers, or mental health professionals, can make a significant difference. Take it one step at a time, and reach out whenever you need to.