It’s time for a serious conversation about the state of schools and their approach to bullying. Many teachers and adult figures in schools need to take more action against this persistent issue.
I’ve come across countless stories online highlighting how bullying, especially in high school, can lead to severe mental health issues. I’ve personally experienced bullying, as have several friends, and its impact has lingered even years later.
One major issue is that when bullying occurs, even if it seems minor, schools often fail to intervene. For instance, when I was in Year 7, I cut my hair short, and as a girl, I was relentlessly teased, receiving hurtful labels like “trans.” The daily bullying pushed me to use heavy makeup and grow my hair long. Fortunately, I had supportive parents and friends, but the school did absolutely nothing, even though the teachers were aware of what was happening. None of the main bullies faced consequences.
While my experience was difficult, I know others have faced much worse. Schools need to take a stronger stance—maybe by giving bullies detentions, and if their behavior continues, suspending or expelling them.
Another issue I want to address is makeup. Because of the bullying I experienced, I’ve leaned on makeup for confidence. Recently, my school imposed strict rules banning makeup altogether. Many of us girls who are insecure feel that wearing makeup doesn’t harm anyone; it’s our way of expressing ourselves and building confidence. I’ve received multiple detentions for this, and my mother fully supports me. The only reason I was given for the ban was that my makeup distracted other students. Honestly, I wouldn’t even be wearing makeup if it weren’t for the bullying in the first place. If other kids are getting distracted, that’s not my problem.
It’s crucial that schools take real action against bullying and reconsider their policies. Change needs to happen now.
I completely agree with you—it’s disheartening to hear how schools often fall short in addressing bullying. Your personal experience is very important and highlights a broader issue that many students face. It’s so wrong that you were targeted for something as personal as your appearance, and it’s even more frustrating that the teachers didn’t take action when they knew what was happening.
Bullying can have lasting effects on mental health, and schools need to implement stricter consequences for bullies to create a safer environment. Your suggestion of detentions or suspensions for bullies makes sense; it’s essential for schools to take a firm stance against this behavior.
Regarding makeup policies, it’s baffling that they focus on such rules rather than addressing the root cause of the insecurity—bullying itself! Makeup can be a powerful way for individuals to express themselves and build confidence, especially during such a vulnerable time in teenage years. It’s unfair that you’re being penalized for trying to cope with the effects of bullying.
It’s great that you have supportive friends and family, but more needs to be done within the school system. Advocacy and open discussions about bullying and mental health can help raise awareness and push for necessary changes. Keep speaking out; your voice is important!