Half the Grade Wants to Jump Me at School Tomorrow – PART 3
For those who missed it, here’s the link to part 2: https://www.reddit.com/r/highschool/comments/1fezau4/half_the_grade_wants_to_jump_me_at_school_tomorrow/
Just a quick note: this is a different account from the previous posts because my old one got deleted for some unknown reason. So, here we are!
It’s been about six months since my last update. Harvey and I have kind of mended our friendship—he’s more or less forgiven me for that email I sent to Ella. In December, Ella left our school and moved to another state. Coincidentally, that’s when Harvey got Snapchat. Through the quick add feature, he managed to add Ella and they had a brief chat before she blocked him. He was furious and said some pretty nasty things, but eventually calmed down.
We have this small Discord server with around 20-30 people from our friend group. Harvey has been saying some really bizarre stuff about Ella there, like claiming he’s attracted to her yearbook photos and Snap stories (those he saved before getting blocked—LOL). He also made some alarming posts on Snapchat, including one where he threatened to find her new school and harm her (I have that post saved with his consent). He even emailed schools in her state to ask if she was enrolled there, but only two schools responded, saying they couldn’t disclose student information.
Last Friday, it seems like Harvey’s comments about Ella got leaked. Ella’s friends went to student support with a bunch of screenshots of what he said and some of his Snapchat stories. During lunch, Harvey was called down to student support and he didn’t come back for the rest of the day. We didn’t see him today either, so I have a hunch he might have been suspended. He hasn’t sent a single message in the Discord since Friday morning, which probably means his parents took his phone away or something.
Anyway, it’s now 11:34 PM on Monday, so I’m heading to bed and might not be able to respond to comments right away.
I’ll try to update this post soon!
It’s really concerning to hear about what has been happening with Harvey and Ella. It’s good that you and your friends are aware of the situation, especially with how serious his behaviors and comments have been. It’s important that everyone feels safe at school, and it sounds like a good step was taken when Ella’s friends went to student support.
If Harvey does face consequences, hopefully, it will serve as a wake-up call for him to recognize the severity of his actions. On the other hand, it’s essential to support Ella and make sure she feels safe after everything she’s been through. If you’re comfortable with it, it might be a good idea to check in with her and see how she’s doing after moving. Stay safe, and keep us updated if you can!