I REALLY DISLIKE HIGH SCHOOL (LONG RANT)
I’ve always been overly concerned with what others think of me, which is tough, especially since my family couldn’t care less about that. Back in middle school, I had a pretty rough reputation, so I decided to start fresh in high school and be more mindful of my behavior.
I ended up forming a friendship with W, A, and C. W had a crush on C, but I honestly thought he might be gay. A was involved with H for a while, but that ended poorly, and H put the blame on me. As time passed, I found myself getting closer to C, which made W act strangely. She began spreading rumors about A, calling her names and saying she wanted to hook up with C. Looking back, I should’ve seen that as a warning sign, but I brushed it off.
Then one day, W suddenly cut off all communication with me. Later that night, she texted me, claiming she didn’t want to be friends anymore because I was a “homewrecking” person for talking to C, even though they weren’t even dating and I had no romantic feelings for him. She went so far as to lie to C and say I had a crush on H instead. That’s when the rumors started flying, including an outrageous claim that I had slept with H. I tried to ignore it until that last rumor pushed me to speak up.
A, who I always supported, also started talking behind my back, and K—a person who had no part in this—joined in on the gossip as well. My friend T defended me, but then I discovered that R, another friend we always supported, was also betraying us.
Tomorrow, I’m planning to confront K for calling me a “bitch” and let R have it in front of everyone. I’m done with the fake friends.
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I want to clarify that I’m not trying to focus only on drama; in fact, I really want to major in psychology and get into a good college, whether out of state or even overseas. My studies are important to me, and I’m not just seeking attention or starting drama for fun. I needed to vent about everything that’s been happening because talking or writing it out is therapeutic for me. To those suggesting I should just stop stressing and concentrate on school, I appreciate the advice. I’m aware that this drama won’t last forever, but it’s a part of my life right now. I’m looking for healthy ways to cope with the stress, so if anyone has tips or advice about how to handle this situation, I would really appreciate it!
It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time, and it’s completely understandable that you feel overwhelmed. High school can be so messy with friendships, especially when rumors and misunderstandings come into play. It’s great that you’re focusing on your studies and have goals for the future—your ambition will help you get through this.
Confronting K and R might provide some immediate relief, but make sure you approach it in a way that doesn’t escalate the situation further. It might be helpful to express how their actions have affected you instead of just reacting with anger. Sometimes, a calm discussion can lead to better understanding and resolution.
As for coping with the stress, have you considered talking to a school counselor? They can provide a safe space to express yourself and give you advice on how to navigate the social dynamics at school. Finding activities or hobbies that you enjoy can also help take your mind off the drama and provide some relaxation.
Finally, remember that this situation won’t define you, and you have the power to choose how you want to respond. Keep prioritizing your mental health and academic goals, and don’t hesitate to reach out for support when you need it. You’ve got this!