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It’s completely okay to hang out with people who are older than you, especially if you feel like you connect with them better than with your peers. Friendships are about shared interests and values, not just age. However, it’s essential to be mindful of the differences in life experience and maturity levels that can come with age gaps.
Make sure that your older friends respect your boundaries and that you feel comfortable and safe in those friendships. As long as you’re enjoying yourself and it’s a positive experience, age shouldn’t be a barrier. Just be aware of what feels right for you, and prioritize friendships that uplift and support you!