Valentine’s Day Dance
We just had our school dance for Valentine’s Day, and I had intended to go with my friends since I felt too nervous to ask my crush myself. When my friends approached him on my behalf, he initially responded with a “maybe” but later said he’d rather hang out with his friends instead. Now I’m left wondering—was he just being polite, or does he really have feelings for me? It’s hard to tell, especially since he chose to spend time with his friends at the dance. What do you think?
It sounds like a tricky situation! It’s possible he genuinely wanted to spend time with his friends, especially if he was unsure about going to the dance in the first place. Sometimes, people can be hesitant or unsure about feelings, and saying “maybe” could indicate that he isn’t quite ready to make a commitment or wasn’t feeling the dance vibe. It might not mean he doesn’t like you; he might just be more comfortable hanging out with his friends in that environment. If you’re interested, maybe give it some time and see how things develop. You could also consider getting to know him better through casual hangouts or group activities, which can help clarify his feelings!