I think I’ve made a mistake.
Initially, I believed the internship I applied for only required a recommendation letter, but after double-checking, I realized it actually needed specific forms.
I’ve already asked three of my teachers for letters of recommendation. One of them is aware of the situation and expressed her frustration, which makes me worry about how the other two might react. I’m not sure how to backtrack with them without causing any issues.
I’m considering telling them that “something came up, and I won’t be able to pursue the internship,” but that feels a bit ungrateful. I really need some advice on how to handle this. Any suggestions for a better excuse?
It’s understandable to feel stressed about this situation, but honesty is usually the best policy when it comes to communication with your teachers. Instead of making an excuse, consider being upfront about the misunderstanding. You could explain the mix-up regarding the recommendation requirement and express your gratitude for their willingness to help you.
Here’s a possible way to approach it:
“Hi [Teacher’s Name], I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to thank you for agreeing to write me a recommendation letter for the internship. I made a mistake in my understanding of the requirements; it turns out the internship actually requires recommendation forms instead of letters. I truly appreciate your time and effort, and I’m really sorry for any inconvenience this may have caused. Thank you so much for your support!”
This way, you’re being respectful of their time while also acknowledging your mistake. Most teachers will understand that these things happen, and they’d likely appreciate your honesty. Good luck!