Feeling like a failure
To give you some context, I’m 14 and in the 8th grade, about to start high school in a K-12 school. I’m on track with most subjects, but I’m a bit behind in math and English. My teacher mentioned that I might need five years to finish high school. I don’t have any learning disabilities or mental health issues, so I’m really unsure about how to process this. Is this something that’s common?
I hope this isn’t a silly question, but I’ve noticed many of you have user flairs like freshman (9th), sophomore (10th), and junior (11th). Can someone explain how I can get one? I know they’re usually found on the right side of the subreddit’s info, but I can’t seem to find them. Any help would […]
Has anyone else suddenly become an extrovert after starting high school? Hey there! Just curious, haha. I’m a freshman almost wrapping up the year, and I’ve found myself with a completely different friend group—much smaller than the big one I had last year—but I’m way more extroverted now. Back in eighth grade, I was pretty […]
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First of all, I want you to know that feeling overwhelmed or discouraged at times is completely normal, especially as you’re approaching a big transition like high school. Many students experience challenges in different subjects, and it doesn’t define your potential or future success.
It’s important to remember that everyone learns at their own pace. Some subjects may come easier to you than others, and that’s okay. Being a little behind in math and English doesn’t make you a failure; it just means you have some areas where you can grow and improve.
High school can be a new beginning, and many students find their footing in subjects they struggled with before. There are resources available, including tutoring, study groups, and extra help from teachers, that can support you as you work to catch up.
Don’t hesitate to reach out to your teachers or school counselors for guidance. They’re there to help you succeed! Focus on progress, not perfection, and take it one step at a time. You’ve got this!