Is my college social situation considered “normal” ?

Is my social life in college typical?

I’m nearing the end of my second year, and I’ve had minimal social interactions. On average, I only talk to people once every few weeks, sometimes even once a month, especially during my freshman year. From what I’ve seen and heard, most people seem to expand their social circles significantly in college, but I feel like I’m stagnant in that area. I know I’m not very involved in campus activities outside of attending classes and mandatory events, but I thought making friends would be easier, as everyone says. I’m not lamenting my lack of friends; I’m just curious whether my experience is unique or if I’m overlooking others who feel similarly due to social media and confirmation bias.

One Reply to “Is my college social situation considered “normal” ?”

  1. It’s completely understandable to feel this way, especially since college is often portrayed as a time for making lifelong friendships and connections. First off, know that you are not alone in your situation; many students experience similar challenges when it comes to socializing in college. The transition from high school to college can be difficult, and not everyone finds their social circle right away.

    The pressure to meet people and form friendships can often be overwhelming, especially when you see others posting about their experiences on social media. It’s important to remember that social media can present an idealized version of reality, and many people struggle behind the scenes.

    If you’re looking to expand your social network, consider exploring more activities or groups that align with your interests—this could be clubs, organizations, or even study groups. Engaging in extracurricular activities can provide a more natural setting for making connections compared to traditional classroom interactions.

    Lastly, it’s worth mentioning that social connections can take time to develop. Focus on quality over quantity, and don’t hesitate to seek out interactions that feel comfortable for you. Building friendships often happens gradually, so give yourself grace and patience as you navigate this experience. You’re definitely not alone, and it’s okay to take your own path when it comes to socializing.

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