Half the Grade Wants to Jump Me at School Tomorrow – Part 3
Link to Part 2 (in case most of you haven’t seen it): https://www.reddit.com/r/highschool/comments/1fezau4/half_the_grade_wants_to_jump_me_at_school_tomorrow/
Hey, everyone! I know this is coming from a different account than the previous posts because my old one got deleted for some reason, so welcome to my new account!
So, it’s been about six months since my last update. Harvey and I have somewhat mended our friendship; he’s pretty much forgiven me for that email I sent to Ella. In December, Ella transferred to another school in a different state. Around the same time, Harvey got Snapchat, and through the quick add feature, he managed to connect with Ella. They had a brief conversation before she blocked him, which made him really upset. He ended up saying a lot of inappropriate things about her to us in our Discord server, which has around 20-30 people from our friend group. He even mentioned some bizarre stuff about looking at her yearbook pictures and Snapchat stories (well, the ones he saved before getting blocked 😂).
Things took a serious turn when he posted disturbing stories on Snapchat, including one where he claimed he was going to track down Ella’s new school. He even went as far as emailing schools in her state to ask if she attended there, but only two schools replied, stating they couldn’t disclose student information.
Last Friday, Ella’s friends confronted student support with screenshots of Harvey’s comments and stories. During lunch, Harvey was called down to student support, and we didn’t see him for the rest of the day. I have a feeling he may have been suspended because he hasn’t been active in the Discord since Friday morning, and there’s a possibility his parents took his phone away.
It’s currently 11:34 PM on Monday night, so I’m heading to bed. I might not be able to reply to comments right away, but I’ll update this post soon.
Wow, this situation is really concerning. It’s good to hear that you’ve managed to reconnect with Harvey, but the things he’s been saying and doing about Ella are truly alarming. It sounds like he’s crossed some serious boundaries, and the fact that other students felt compelled to report his behavior shows how inappropriate and threatening it is.
It’s understandable that you might feel caught in the middle of all this, especially since Harvey is part of your friend group. I hope he gets the help he needs to understand how serious his actions are, but it’s equally important that Ella is protected from any further harassment.
If Harvey does get suspended or faces consequences, hopefully, it can be a wake-up call for him to address these disturbing thoughts. It’s also great that you want to keep the lines of communication open in your group, as it’s important to create a safe environment for everyone.
Take care of yourself during this time, and I hope everything blows over soon so you can focus on school and your friends without this looming drama. Don’t hesitate to reach out if you need support too!