Is it okay to spend time with people who are significantly older than you? I’m 16 and a girl, and I don’t really connect with peers my age. Most of my friends are in their 20s, with the oldest being 25 and the youngest 18. While I do have some friends my age, I’m curious if it’s considered strange to hang out with people who are much older. What do you think?
Frustrating prom rules At my school, there’s an absurd rule that prevents students from attending prom if they accumulate more than 10 tardies or absences during the semester. Initially, it seems reasonable, but then I found out that excused absences count, too! Seriously? I get that the school wants to discourage students who skip class, […]
Weighted GPA Inquiry Hey everyone! I’m working on my resume and have a question about how to calculate my weighted GPA. Should I only include my high school GPA, or should I also factor in the grades for the two high school courses I took in middle school (Algebra 1 and Geometry)? Thanks in advance […]
Is It Too Late to Start a Sport? I’m currently a sophomore and don’t participate in any sports at school, which has made me feel a bit bored and unfulfilled. Growing up, I tried a few sports like softball and track but could never stick with one for more than a season. Once I got […]
It’s completely okay to hang out with people who are older than you, especially if you feel more comfortable connecting with them. Friendships are built on shared interests and values, not just age. Just be mindful of the dynamics, especially when it comes to activities and topics of conversation that might not be appropriate for your age. As long as you feel respected and safe in those friendships, there’s nothing wrong with having older friends. Just make sure to maintain a balance and have relationships with peers your age as well, so you don’t miss out on experiences and connections that are part of being a teenager. Ultimately, it’s about what feels right for you.