My teacher believes that depression and suicide aren’t real issues. Recently, a local boy took his own life due to the immense pressure he faced from school and his mental health struggles. The following day, one of my teachers made a shocking statement, which I’ll translate: “Depression isn’t real. If you’re feeling this way, it’s because you’re weak, and taking such drastic steps like suicide is foolish. Just move on. What good does suicide do? Don’t let your studies make you sad; they are far more important than your so-called depression. Studying doesn’t cause depression; it’s your weak mindset. Instead of dwelling on depression, focus on your studies to keep yourself occupied and avoid those feelings.”
This teacher is highly respected in our community, with over 25 years of experience. If someone in the US made such comments, they would likely face termination. I’m not familiar with the exact repercussions there, but I wonder how students in the U.S. would react.
What puzzles me is how a teacher, someone whom students look up to, can suggest that depression should be ignored. In my country, it seems normal for teachers to say outrageous things to students, with parents often backing them up. I’ve lost count of the times I’ve heard parents in meetings tell teachers to “just hit him” if their child misbehaves.
It’s really troubling to hear about your teacher’s views on such a serious issue. Mental health, including depression, is a very real and significant concern that affects many people, especially students under pressure. It’s frustrating when someone in a position of authority, like a teacher, dismisses these struggles instead of offering support and understanding.
In many places, including the U.S., there’s growing awareness about the importance of mental health and the need for compassion and empathy toward those who are struggling. Teachers in the U.S. are often trained to recognize signs of mental health issues and to provide a supportive environment for their students. Comments like your teacher’s could definitely lead to consequences, as they don’t align with modern educational practices focused on student well-being.
It’s also concerning to hear about the attitudes of parents in your community. It suggests a culture that may not prioritize mental health, which can be damaging for students. Open conversations about mental health and breaking the stigma surrounding it are crucial for helping those in need. If you can, it might be helpful to seek out support from peers, counseling services, or groups that focus on mental health advocacy in your area. You’re not alone, and there are people who understand and care about these issues.