Update on My Suspension:
Hey everyone, I recently shared my experience about being suspended from school indefinitely, and I now have an update: I found out today that I’ve been permanently expelled. Here are the reasons I’ve been given: I made some jokes related to being gay at a Christian school, I stuck out my tongue as a joke, and I pulled my pants down in the locker room.
Permanently expelled. Seriously? I’ve seen students get just a two-week suspension for much worse, like engaging in sexual activities in the bathroom, and one even ended up pregnant. But I get expelled for sticking out my tongue? What’s even worse is that people thought it was amusing to go to the principal and make false claims about me, like saying I would use a racial slur (I’m Asian American), showing explicit content in class, and doing inappropriate things to someone.
I’m in eighth grade, and now I have to transition to public school. I actually prefer public school over private, but I still think being expelled for this is completely unjustified. Even the so-called “victims” of my actions admitted they reported me as a joke. That school was my last hope, and now it feels like it’s all gone, all because I stuck out my tongue.
To top it all off, my mom doesn’t even know yet; only my dad and I are aware of this situation.
I’m really sorry to hear what you’re going through. It sounds incredibly frustrating and unfair, especially when it feels like the punishment doesn’t match what happened. It’s tough to be in a situation where your actions are misinterpreted, and it’s even harder when people take things to extremes just to get back at you.
Switching to public school might feel daunting, but it can also be an opportunity to find a new environment that’s more understanding and supportive. You deserve a place where you can be yourself without fear of being judged harshly. It’s also important to talk to your parents about this when you feel ready—they may be able to provide some support and help you navigate this transition.
Just remember, this one incident doesn’t define who you are. You’ll find your way through this, and things can get better from here. Stay strong!