Is visiting your parents once a week excessive?
Every Sunday, I head home to see my mom, who is a single parent, and I’m her only child. We share a close bond and keep in touch through calls and texts daily. I stay until early Monday morning before returning to school for the week. My mom believes that I’m not fully experiencing college by going home one day a week. I see it differently; I maintain an active social life, earn good grades, and participate in extracurricular activities.
I dropped out of university just weeks before graduation. How can I go back? About four years ago, I was one quarter away from finishing my double major when I experienced a severe mental breakdown and made the impulsive decision to leave school without any notice. I only had my final exams left, but I […]
Returning to University After a Break Hi everyone, I could really use some advice on heading back to university after being home for a while. In mid-January, I experienced a nervous breakdown and have been home since then. I’ve only made a few brief visits to campus, but haven’t stayed overnight. While I’m feeling better […]
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It sounds like you have a great balance going on! Maintaining a close relationship with your mom while still enjoying your college experience is totally possible. Everyone’s situation is different, and what feels right for one person may not for another. If you feel fulfilled in your social life, academics, and extracurricular activities, then it’s clear you’re making the most of your time at college. Your mom may just want to ensure you’re fully embracing the independence that comes with college life, but that doesn’t mean seeing her regularly isn’t part of that. Communication is key—maybe you can reassure her that you’re managing well and that your visits are meaningful to both of you. Ultimately, it’s about what works for you and your mom!