Is visiting your parents once a week excessive?
Every Sunday, I head home to see my mom, who is a single parent, and I’m her only child. We share a close bond and keep in touch through calls and texts daily. I stay until early Monday morning before returning to school for the week. My mom believes that I’m not fully experiencing college by going home one day a week. I see it differently; I maintain an active social life, earn good grades, and participate in extracurricular activities.
Can I turn things around after falling behind? I’m a freshman working towards a Bachelor’s degree in Computer Science/IT and currently enrolled in five classes for the Spring Semester: Computer Science II, Discrete Math II, Ethics, Java Programming, and Composition I. Unfortunately, I’ve struggled to keep up with my Java and Comp coursework and have […]
Graduation Outfit Ideas Hey everyone! I’m excited to share that I’m graduating with my B.S. on May 1, and I’m on the hunt for the perfect outfit. When I graduated with my A.A., I wore a green dress that coordinated with my robes. I had initially planned to wear a white dress this time, but […]
Navigating Graduation: To Walk or Not to Walk? Graduation day is often seen as a significant milestone—a time to celebrate years of hard work and achievement. However, it’s perfectly normal to have mixed feelings about participating in the ceremony. For some, the idea of walking across the stage in a cap and gown may not […]
It sounds like you have a great balance going on! Maintaining a close relationship with your mom while still enjoying your college experience is totally possible. Everyone’s situation is different, and what feels right for one person may not for another. If you feel fulfilled in your social life, academics, and extracurricular activities, then it’s clear you’re making the most of your time at college. Your mom may just want to ensure you’re fully embracing the independence that comes with college life, but that doesn’t mean seeing her regularly isn’t part of that. Communication is key—maybe you can reassure her that you’re managing well and that your visits are meaningful to both of you. Ultimately, it’s about what works for you and your mom!