Feeling Stuck
Hey everyone, I’m a 17-year-old and I’ve been out of school for nearly two years. I convinced my mom to enroll me in online schooling after I left in the second semester of 10th grade, but I haven’t made much progress. Right now, I’ve only earned 7 out of the 24 credits I need to graduate this June, and it’s really discouraging that 3 of those credits are from 10th grade.
My plan is to buckle down over the next few months—just focusing on March, April, May, and June. However, at my current pace, I’m worried I won’t accomplish much in that time. I feel like I could really use some support right now. My mom thinks I’m doing well, but she doesn’t quite get how tough this is for me. Even when I try to share my feelings honestly, she responds with things like, “You’re doing great” or “Just take it easy.” But I’m trying to scream, “MOM, I’M NOT GOING TO GRADUATE HIGH SCHOOL!”
It sounds like you’re in a really tough spot, and it’s completely okay to feel overwhelmed. Taking the step to reach out is a great first move. It’s understandable that your mom might be trying to be positive, but the support you need right now is someone who can acknowledge how hard this is and help you figure out a plan to move forward.
Have you considered reaching out to a school counselor or an academic advisor? They could help you understand your options and create a more manageable plan to catch up. Sometimes, having even just a little guidance can make a huge difference.
Also, don’t hesitate to connect with peers or online communities who may understand what you’re going through. They might offer insights or share strategies that have worked for them. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and it’s okay to ask for help. Prioritize what you can realistically tackle, and focus on those small victories to build momentum. You got this!